Mourning the death of a spouse

This email came in from a good friend of mine.  Some of might even benefit from this (not just me).

When your spouse dies, your world changes. You are in mourning—feeling grief and sorrow at the loss. You may feel numb, shocked, and fearful. You may feel guilty for being the one who is still alive. If your spouse died in a nursing home, you may wish that you had been able to care for him or her at home. At some point, you may even feel angry at your spouse for leaving you. All these feelings are normal. There are no rules about how you should feel. There is no right or wrong way to mourn.

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Kahit Isang Saglit

I never got to talk to you.  You never got to see me.  We never got to kiss or embrace our last.  I will keep longing for it for the rest of my life.

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To my honey

I miss you hon.  I lost my future when God has taken you away.  I grieve because I am lost and my future is bleak without you.  But I strive to be happy now for you are without pain and with God already.

Build us a house there and be there for me when its my last breath here on Earth.  I will be excited to see you and our house in heaven.  Paint it light blue as you wanted to.  Maybe in heaven we can start our own happy family.

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Body envy and vanity

Which species of mankind is more vain or envious?  Men or women?

You’ve often heard about curses, libel, murder and even voodoo crimes.  Most of them are funny because they are caused only by vanity or even envy.  Why does man want to keep on changing the way he is?

The media is guilty of provoking more women to be more vain.  Movies show men as loving and wanting only beautiful and sexy women who look like they are pretty dolls or goddesses of physical beauty.  Its the media too that advocates discrimination of physical appearance.  The prints too have made men and women depressed and too concerned about physical improvements. more…

Bye 2006, Welcome 2007

Today is the last day of the year. Last night, I spent it working late. I was rushing into stuffs that I need to do. I’m way behind my own schedule, so it was my way of catching up. Yesterday was very unproductive, but today I promise to do some real working. Hehe..

Just this morning, I heard it over the radio, the DJ was saying something about a New Year’s countdown and resolutions. I have been delaying this post, so I just gave it some thought, and now here are my resolutions. But before anything else, I am saying bye bye to 2006.

Two thousand six is a very meaningful year for me. I have been into a lot this year. Here are some of the things I’d want to remember about this year: more…

I rant

“The art of being happy lies in the power of extracting happiness from common things.”
- Henry Ward Beecher

I know it should be easy. It is easy to laugh at a very simple joke. It is also easy to smile at someone who smiles at you. But why can’t I?

I met someone in a donut store just some few months back. From that time on, I have been smiling at him whenever I’d see him in the mall. He has this happy smile on his face that makes me question my own happiness. The first time I met him, I received a good news, one that really excited me that much. Just two days ago, fancy we met him in the donut store again. As it was like the first time we saw him, we had a very light and warm conversation. If you’d just know the truth, we aren’t close friends, but we’ve been sharing personal stories. When I see him, I always have this feeling that he’s an angel… coming to me when I need him. more…